01-26-2008, 09:39 PM
I hate it when people want to complain about other people, but can't even be bothered to name who it is. Is it logicalconclusion? (I do hope it's not me). Is it someone else? Anyone?
Some ideas are offensive in and of themselves (e.g. homosexuality is immoral, all LFA's are poop smearers, etc). There is a certain amount of leeway that these ideas can be given initially, but if it seems that the person will continue to disrupt the threads they post on with these ideas, they must be considered disruptive.
This doesn't actually qualify as censorship, as this is a forum privately owned by Gareth and Amy, not public property. Censorship would involve not allowing him to post these ideas anywhere, whereas this is just us urging the forum admins to throw the person out of their "house".
If all ideas were considered inoffensive, then personal attacks would also be considered inoffensive, as they are merely expressing the "idea" that the other person is stupid, annoying, ignorant, etc.
In short, this isn't just a forum where anyone with aspergers can say anything they like - it's a forum where people without aspergers are also allowed to post, and where people with aspergers that happen to also be jerks should be encouraged to leave.
True - my point was that particular ideas can be offensive in their own right. Why is insulting a group (e.g. homosexuals, left-wing political parties, etc) any different to insulting a person? These statements are the equivalent of a personal attack on every single member of these groups.
For the record, I would have been happy to let the abortion thread go - it would have died once everyone stopped posting, and that would have been it.
It was the statements about gay and autistic people, and the way he used the abortion thread to insult other groups, that made me decide to write him off.
Very few people are open to the idea that homosexuality is immoral, or that LFA's are all poop smearers. I, for one, think this is a good thing.
I really think that people place too much emphasis on whether or not someone has made personal attacks. There's far worse things to do, and there are cases where personal attacks, where truthful, are appropriate. For example, calling a racist person a bigot is appropriate.
True, but there's plenty of people that debate against abortion without being insulting - Tigger, for example.
It's a debate that has a lot of grey areas, and it's generally the appearance of people like logical conclusion on both sides of the debate that make it impossible to talk rationally about it.
I'd be quite happy to re-discuss the issues once LC has been banned.
That's OK - it's not his opinion on that issue that I have a problem with, it's the fact that he uses it as a jumping-point to be offensive in other ways.
Why is attacking a group different to attacking a person?
Two lefts don't make a right either.
But three do! 


Two Wrights made an airplane... *grins*
It doesn't matter - Lucie doesn't have the power to ban, so there's no reason to be snide to her.
It's good to debate whether or not to ban bigots, but ultimately the only people responsible for their continued existence on the site are the admins.
This is why I decided to post this thread... not to attract controversy, but to show that some of the things being said in the more controversial threads are, quite frankly, causing offense for some people. Just because a lot of LC's words are actual statements of his opinion, rather than personal attack, doesn't change the fact that people are reacting and being offended. Myself included.
And... I don't think it's simply "my choice" or anyone else's to be offended... it's something that happens.
I agree completely - an attack on a group, in this case gay people, constitutes a personal attack on every single member of that group. If we want gay people to feel welcome on this site, he should be banned.
I absolutely disagree.
The extent to which a person is offended by a group criticism is determined by a combination of multiple factors, including:
-The level of that person's own recognition of his or her distinctions and the fact that others don't always approve of such distinctions.
-The extent to which the person places immediate personal interest in the interests of the group as a whole.
-The level of self-respect and self-control that person has imposed upon himself or herself.
Furthermore, arguments that are likely to cause great offense as has been seen here must either have legitimacy or target a group that, for whatever reason, is liable to be offended upon attack. I could say left-handed people are inferior, and I doubt anyone would be offended or at all put off - they would simply think I was an idiot and move on with their lives. This offense that is being taken to an anti-gay argument should be carefully analyzed, and a more logical decision should be made as to whether LC is really the cause or simply the enabler of offense.
I agree with this completely. In this case, I think that any individual person could choose not to be offended by LC's statements - however, in order to make the site a welcoming place for new people that may arrive, this sort of bigotry cannot be allowed.
His comments add nothing to the site, and take away from the enjoyment of the site by the groups he is targeting. Therefore, he should have no place here.


To Quote Flardox

Well done all who had the courage & debating skills,

to my shame I didn't!


It's not really whether or not this interpretation is "valid", I just want to stop these blowups from happening again.
Logical Conclusion was never really going to be a part of this big family - even if he hadn't been banned, he would never have been liked.
You, on the other hand, are - and so it's important to work through things.
With some people, a single extreme negative makes any good they may have irrelevant. A nice serial killer that loves his wife and kids is predominantly a serial killer - the other things become irrelevant. This is how I feel about bigotry.
When someone attacks a group of people, it makes this a less pleasant place for every single person in that group. If it continues, it becomes harrassment. A good rule of thumb when someone is criticising a group is to ask yourself if you would be happy with them directing the statement personally at every single member of that group. If Logical Conclusion had gone to every single gay member of this forum and said "You are much more likely than anyone else to be a pedophile. You are responsible for the spread of AIDS", it would not have been acceptable. This is, in essence, what he was doing.
a. do not PM me.
b. grow up. I keep it public thank you. PMing me is the equivalent of sending me a nasty little email. Which I don't stoop to. Bluntly put, you really need to get a life if you honestly think that I give a toss what a randomer on the internet thinks of me as a person.
Good!
Another member who refuses to be intimidated by PM.