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I hate it when people want to complain about other people, but can't even be bothered to name who it is. Is it logicalconclusion? (I do hope it's not me). Is it someone else? Anyone?

Lucie1 Wrote:
I haven't picked up that Logical conclusion is a trouble maker - he has ideas that may go against the grain for many people - but they are just his ideas. He has aspergers - as such he is allowed to post his ideas on this forum - I am not into censorship of ideas. Freedom of expression opens up and allows for freedom of thought.


Some ideas are offensive in and of themselves (e.g. homosexuality is immoral, all LFA's are poop smearers, etc). There is a certain amount of leeway that these ideas can be given initially, but if it seems that the person will continue to disrupt the threads they post on with these ideas, they must be considered disruptive.

This doesn't actually qualify as censorship, as this is a forum privately owned by Gareth and Amy, not public property. Censorship would involve not allowing him to post these ideas anywhere, whereas this is just us urging the forum admins to throw the person out of their "house".

If all ideas were considered inoffensive, then personal attacks would also be considered inoffensive, as they are merely expressing the "idea" that the other person is stupid, annoying, ignorant, etc.

In short, this isn't just a forum where anyone with aspergers can say anything they like - it's a forum where people without aspergers are also allowed to post, and where people with aspergers that happen to also be jerks should be encouraged to leave.

Lucie1 Wrote:
I've read through his posts in the abortion thread. He is passionate in his belief - but I don't see that he wishes to engage in personal attack.


True - my point was that particular ideas can be offensive in their own right. Why is insulting a group (e.g. homosexuals, left-wing political parties, etc) any different to insulting a person? These statements are the equivalent of a personal attack on every single member of these groups.

For the record, I would have been happy to let the abortion thread go - it would have died once everyone stopped posting, and that would have been it.

It was the statements about gay and autistic people, and the way he used the abortion thread to insult other groups, that made me decide to write him off.

Ando Wrote:
We really don't have as much openness about ideas as a lot of us like to believe, and I think that most of the controversy surrounding logicalconclusion is simply the fact that his ideas are very different than yours. True, he has been somewhat abrasive, but he hasn't yet flamed anyone (at least not seriously).


Very few people are open to the idea that homosexuality is immoral, or that LFA's are all poop smearers. I, for one, think this is a good thing.

I really think that people place too much emphasis on whether or not someone has made personal attacks. There's far worse things to do, and there are cases where personal attacks, where truthful, are appropriate. For example, calling a racist person a bigot is appropriate.

tenaciouscj Wrote:
He does appear to have very different ideas about certain things but as a person against abortion except in very limited circumstances, I can find common ground with him there.


True, but there's plenty of people that debate against abortion without being insulting - Tigger, for example.

It's a debate that has a lot of grey areas, and it's generally the appearance of people like logical conclusion on both sides of the debate that make it impossible to talk rationally about it.

I'd be quite happy to re-discuss the issues once LC has been banned.

tenaciouscj Wrote:
I'd still be putting up arguments against abortion on demand though.


That's OK - it's not his opinion on that issue that I have a problem with, it's the fact that he uses it as a jumping-point to be offensive in other ways.

Lucie1 Wrote:
I like you lots evil - but this is where you and I differ - people can think whatever they want - I couldn't care less - but personal attacks really rub me up the wrong way. In my view personal attacks are never appropriate - attack the idea -not the person.


Why is attacking a group different to attacking a person?

Tigger_the_Wing Wrote:

Pakrat Wrote:

Lucie1 Wrote:
I will agree - two wrongs don't make a right.

Two lefts don't make a right either.


But three do! Big GrinBig GrinBig Grin


Two Wrights made an airplane... *grins*

Batman55 Wrote:
He shows some similar trains of thought to Louise18, who, interestingly enough, you also supported for just expressing her opinions.


It doesn't matter - Lucie doesn't have the power to ban, so there's no reason to be snide to her.

It's good to debate whether or not to ban bigots, but ultimately the only people responsible for their continued existence on the site are the admins.

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erkolos Wrote:
Reminds me alot of Louise18 in the "like pet monkeys" thread.

I wonder if this argument has scared many of the new members off.


This is why I decided to post this thread... not to attract controversy, but to show that some of the things being said in the more controversial threads are, quite frankly, causing offense for some people.  Just because a lot of LC's words are actual statements of his opinion, rather than personal attack, doesn't change the fact that people are reacting and being offended.  Myself included.

And... I don't think it's simply "my choice" or anyone else's to be offended... it's something that happens.


I agree completely - an attack on a group, in this case gay people, constitutes a personal attack on every single member of that group. If we want gay people to feel welcome on this site, he should be banned.

pssvr Wrote:

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And... I don't think it's simply "my choice" or anyone else's to be offended... it's something that happens.

I absolutely disagree.

The extent to which a person is offended by a group criticism is determined by a combination of multiple factors, including:

-The level of that person's own recognition of his or her distinctions and the fact that others don't always approve of such distinctions.

-The extent to which the person places immediate personal interest in the interests of the group as a whole.

-The level of self-respect and self-control that person has imposed upon himself or herself.

Furthermore, arguments that are likely to cause great offense as has been seen here must either have legitimacy or target a group that, for whatever reason, is liable to be offended upon attack. I could say left-handed people are inferior, and I doubt anyone would be offended or at all put off - they would simply think I was an idiot and move on with their lives. This offense that is being taken to an anti-gay argument should be carefully analyzed, and a more logical decision should be made as to whether LC is really the cause or simply the enabler of offense.


I agree with this completely. In this case, I think that any individual person could choose not to be offended by LC's statements - however, in order to make the site a welcoming place for new people that may arrive, this sort of bigotry cannot be allowed.

His comments add nothing to the site, and take away from the enjoyment of the site by the groups he is targeting. Therefore, he should have no place here.

ocampo Wrote:
Just for the record, I'm extremely proud of myself too. So proud to the point I think we should set up our own summer festival and call it 'Ban Pride' - I'm building an effigy of LC as we speak, its built out of soggy wood (for the head) and spare human waste (to reflect the substance of LC's argument basis). At least now we shall finally discover whether or not sh*t does in fact burn Smile

As one of the wicked witches who gleefully rejoices in the banning of said sandbags-for-brains, I can assure you that on my CCCTV (closed-circuit cauldron TV), LC is soundly getting the verbal kicking somewhere that LC oh so clearly deserves. I'm all for the little onanism stain to get a short, hard, full powered steel toe cap to the intimate regions; unfortunately its only verbal. What you give you get in return; contrary to insinuation, I am not a bully, nor have I ever been, not will I ever be. The world is too full of such oxygen thieves that are incapable of being bullied because their own inflated sense of ego makes it impossible to step on their face for longer than a few seconds. People like LC. If I had my obscure politics, I'd want every single idiot on the planet put on a big boat and dumped in the middle of the Atlantic, but I don't go around places saying "By the way, your entire minority group are [insert moral panic here], I don't care if I'm an idiot, I'm only stating some facts I found on a website and throwing around some names that make me sound intellectual" (i.e. when LC suddenly dropped his Marx crap when I pointed out I'm a sociologist - and the same reason LC avoided consistently any (initially polite) criticism I made of his politics) and wondering why people think I'm as much use as a chocolate teapot. I could easily point out that I think certain people should be banned from having children - certain political ideologies are blood chilling - and if you want lots of juicy statistics and theories, I could write an equally showy piece of 'mental masturbation' as one other poster said to verify why I believe what I believe. On the other hand, a good social analyist is aware of the importance of all groups in society and doesn't extend themselves to the kind of nonsensical moral stratifications that require personal opinion, something which twathead never grasped the concept of. Sociologically, no-one gives a toss what the analyist thinks, only what the analyist finds. And no decent analyist finds facts to support an argument, they find facts and develop an argument that must be weighed up equally and compared to other sources/theories. Had LC taken his 'paedophiles are predominantly homosexual' to any criminological sector, he would have been laughed straight out of the building; some people may be impressed by the showiness of his 'allegations'. Those people don't have a sociology/criminology degree with a special interest in deviancy theories Smile

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm off to throw a newt's eye into my potion.

To Quote Flardox

flardox Wrote:

GO OCAMPO! GO OCAMPO! GO OCAMPO! GO OCAMPO!  Tongue

Well done all who had the courage & debating skills,Big GrinBig GrinBig Grin to my shame I didn't!RolleyesRolleyesRolleyes

Lucie1 Wrote:
I am sure your interpretation and your opinion based on what you read has validity.


It's not really whether or not this interpretation is "valid", I just want to stop these blowups from happening again.

Logical Conclusion was never really going to be a part of this big family - even if he hadn't been banned, he would never have been liked.

You, on the other hand, are - and so it's important to work through things.

Hi all - just wanted to let everyone know that I'm debating this thread with Lucie via PM - I'm sure you can understand that it's quite intimidating when a large group of people are all trying to debate against your point of view at once.

I wanted to try to correct a few misconceptions here while I was at it.

Firstly, Lucie does not agree with the points of view of these people - as you can see from this thread, she was debating against LC's opinion. Lucie merely believes that it is possible to get through to these people if we all try hard enough.

Secondly, whatever issues you may have with her actions, please try to remember that she is trying to act from a position of compassion, and this should be respected. In many of these cases, such as the one above, it may be that she doesn't see that the person is trying to be deliberately offensive. She wants this to be an open and friendly place to be - it's entirely okay to criticize her tactics, but there's nothing at all wrong with her intentions.

In any case, remember that Logical Conclusion was the bad guy in this thread, not Lucie.

I'll respond to the post below, though, as it was posted publically:

Lucie1 Wrote:
LC was not the 'epitome of integrity and soul' - I just wanted to point out that he had good in him.
Homophobia is about hate - personal abuse is about hate - putting hate on top of hate increases hate.
I probably showed intolerance by not understanding enough why people were so upset with him. I try to state my concerns without emotion - but maybe I don't always achieve this. Maybe I sound to self righteous and perhaps this fires flames.
To to draw aspies in to this culture / forum I believe we need to create a feeling of harmony and acceptance. I think it is best to focus on the good in people - draw out their good and instead of focusing on their negatives. We all have good and negative aspects in our personalities. It is okay to dislike hateful attitudes - but ..... maybe it is better to focus on the good - to draw the good out of people and create a forum that is more harmonious. There are attitudes we don't like - or that are hateful - but this guy was an aspie ... I just think we could have worked with him a bit more to draw out his good.

I apologise for the post above as well - sorry ocampo - reading it now I can see it was harshly worded.


With some people, a single extreme negative makes any good they may have irrelevant. A nice serial killer that loves his wife and kids is predominantly a serial killer - the other things become irrelevant. This is how I feel about bigotry.

When someone attacks a group of people, it makes this a less pleasant place for every single person in that group. If it continues, it becomes harrassment. A good rule of thumb when someone is criticising a group is to ask yourself if you would be happy with them directing the statement personally at every single member of that group. If Logical Conclusion had gone to every single gay member of this forum and said "You are much more likely than anyone else to be a pedophile. You are responsible for the spread of AIDS", it would not have been acceptable. This is, in essence, what he was doing.

ocampo Wrote:

Lucie1 Wrote:
[no subject]

You can say as many rude and critical things about me as you like - I don't care - you can't touch me - I guess you can make me sad - but that relates more to the type of behaviour you allow yourself to indulge in.

Evilzacchie asked me to ask you to go easier on me - but there is no way in the world this is going to happen.

He is a nice guy who has concerns for me.


a. do not PM me.

b. grow up. I keep it public thank you. PMing me is the equivalent of sending me a nasty little email. Which I don't stoop to. Bluntly put, you really need to get a life if you honestly think that I give a toss what a randomer on the internet thinks of me as a person.


Good!
Another member who refuses to be intimidated by PM.

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