I hope you don't mean aliengirl there ian.
As for wrongplanet, don't take it to heart, I joined WP the other day, made a brief introductory post, under a different name (tsathoggua) in case of any partisan bullshit arising, posted one or two other posts, went out to the shop, and got promptly banned, with no explanation.
It isn't you hun, you rawk!, but some people over there have obviously got their heads up their own arses
And that color scheme is vile.
Well, I've been over there a few times and they are now in the middle of some rather nasty wrangling over "the rules", especially with regard to the Politics/Religion forum.
A close friend of mine recently got banned and he can't get any sense out of the mod who banned him after a half-hearted public warning. There are people who put up provocative threads and then get upset if anybody dares to refute them.
3 or 4 mods for a site with 19000+ members is just plain ludicrous but the reason I was given was that if they had any more, there would be too many ego clashes.
The mod who banned my friend is someone I could not respect pretty much from the start. He does not seem fit to be a mod because he is too biased and inconsistent and the power seems to have gone to his head.
They have had some really good mods but I don't know what's happened with most of them.
It has occurred to me recently that certain of the rules over there are framed in such a way as to suit a way of thinking that is often quite diametrically opposed to how most aspies operate. We are not anti-rules but anything that seems illogical, capricious, or internally inconsistent will be a challenge to follow.
I don't think WP has the same brief as AFF to be a support site - it is more of a discussion site. This is not bad in itself but it is something to be aware of.