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aliengirl Wrote:
I read this article http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/ar...4&ito=1490
and wrote this in response


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My attention was drawn to this paragraph:

"Over half a million people in the UK suffer from autism, which leaves them struggling to communicate effectively. Boys are four times more likely to develop it than girls and there is no known cause and no cure."

1. I don't 'suffer' from autism
2. I can communicate just fine when people compromise and accept my ways of communication as well as me accpeting theirs. Problems generally occur when NTs enforce their way of communication in people with autism and are totally unwilling to make any adaptations.


Somone responded to me with


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Oh hush, you. We've heard it a million times before, and it's not what this thread is about. If you want to whine about the details, make a new thread in the appropriate forum. But since we're talking about it:

"Suffering" is a generic term that is not intended to suggest that you're really terribly unhappy about it. It lends itself to plenty of jokes, but taking it too seriously results in wankery like this.

You can communicate just fine given X and Y and Z, and .... Wait, when do these conditions occur? The point is that you will invariably have difficulty communicating with the average Joe who doesn't have a clue what you're on about or care to understand why you're so different. Sorry, just don't take it personally.


Back on topic: I had something like this done when I was a kid (I think it was only like 64 electrodes?), and that's how I was diagnosed. But I wasn't nearly as young as that girl. I was in 4th grade. Anyway, I'm curious to see what this study will reveal.


Why are people mean and why did he use bad language to me?


Well you know the Daily Mail's main target audience is bigots, homophobes, and little englanders?

They're not the most progressive group of people in the country, which was once GREAT Britain.

aliengirl Wrote:
I can't use regular fora because of my learning difficulties and because I get bullied. If I can't use places like WP then where can I go?

I am not able to socialise IRL so there is nothing left for me if online autistic people don't want me either.

What am I supposed to do? Why do people hate me?
Is it because I have learning difficulties and aspies are supposed to be above average intelligence? Am I an embarrassment?

Please help, I'm so upset.


Aliengirl, depsite what some people like to belive over at Wrongplanet, there are alot of Aspies there who can act rather NT at times. Unfortunetly, it seems when they do, they only portray the bad aspects of NT behaviour. Such as bullying.

The best thing you can do is ignore them. Most likely they want attention, so not giving them that attention will make them realize they are in the wrong. I don't really know what else to tell you. I've been bullied by WillOne in the chat for awhile, I just have to ignore him, there is no talking to him.

Also I find it interesting that for people who face stigma like us. Most of the Aspies I talk to on Wrongplanet have a very NT view towards people of size. Like, thinking that if you're a "fatty" you should walk around the block. That you are lazy. That it is impossible to be fat and healthy. Despite constantly trying to get people to go to bigfatfacts.com.

If they do go there, they like to claim that it's just people holding a conspiracy theory, that the diet industry is entirely to blame. Or that because what is said there, isn't said by other medical claims, that it can't be true. When obvious the reason size-acceptance exsists, is partly cause there is a clear medical bias towards people who are plus sized. That loosing weight isn't the magical cure-all doctors like to belive it is.

Maybe it's that Wrongplanet isn't exclusively for Aspies. I don't know, it seems there is a lack of moderation in the forums, and the chat rooms. It seems that if these people are Aspie, they are the kind of Aspies that make people think we're immature, stuck up, cranky kids.

The problem isn't with you.

anbuend Wrote:
Also, what I find really strange is going to AFF and reading something about "not like those people on WP who ______________" and then going to WP and reading something about "not like those people on AFF who _____________" and sometimes that blank space is filled by something identical in both places.

Agreed,it's unfair because it makes complete statements about all members from both forums which is untrue.
Many AFF members are WP members,and the same back so it's not like are completely seperate anyway.

Aliengirl,
WP is an okay place,and that sort of reply is rare,in own experience with WP- most people are supportive of others when it comes to problems,it does get stereotypically NT-like at times,and there are are some hf aspie users who are aspie-elitist,who treat classic autists as wastes of air who should be cured or killed,and lower functioning aspies as non existant,but they don't speak for everyone.
WP is also for everyone,am now diagnosed with classic autism [and a learning disability,learning difficulties,also a bunch of sensory things and a cp like condition that are not diagnosed but should get assessed]-but am always find topics that are relevent or neutral,avoid the ones specificically only based around hf aspergers,am recommend this way if find the nature of topics a problem.
There are good users on there who don't even have ASD but have other conditions.
It's a good forum,but probably depends on the moment first view it at.
If would like someone to look out for any nastyness said to self on there,Aliengirl,am would llike to help.


As for ZOMG,think it's a good forum,am registered there,but haven't posted yet due to forgetting it [only use a few in routine],it's worth having a look at now as the posts in question have their own board and aren't on all of them.

pikajedi4 Wrote:
the problem with WP is it is chaotic. there are too many people, posting too much crap, too fast. the mods and admins cant keep up, and a lot of people there are bitter. bitter people argue. sometimes, innocents get caught in the crossfire. and WP has stated that they do not stand alongside us, as regards the rights movement.

Exactly what I found too. There is also this idea which is probably much to do with the US bill of rights that people should be able to say whatever they like and if anybody objects, they are narrow minded.

Whilst there are plenty of decent people posting on WP, there are also some who I strongly suspect are either trolls or who have seriously dysfunctional personalities.

I have stopped going there for months at a time and then return in the hope that it has improved. It takes too much time to go there and go here most of the time and because I think AFF is the better site, I'd have to choose it over WP.

there are just too many people on wrong planet and lots of sex talk.  I think some people must just go there for that.  It is kinda of creepy and I don't go there much.
Well, i'll be brutal about this..

I find a good few Aspies DEEPLY creepy Tongue so I guess if you get a big enough concentration, and get them talking about sex...you know where i'm going with this.
I more mean "jeffery dahmer"   "mah maw tolt me to never hurt nobody, ma'am" creepiness Tongue

or indeed "I start fires!" Tongue
Fresh Meat for Jeffery Dahmer.

There's an AS "support group" i'll be missing out ;p
Well thats his excuse anyway Tongue
What a *** minded little man.
"only children and half-wits mock the Emperor for having no clothes, but at the end of the day the half wit is still a half wit, and the Emperor is still an Emperor"

I forget who said that Tongue
Well I think it seems relevant anyway ;p

Kinda shows up the *** mindedness of people in society I think.
WP can be a relatively awesome place if you never take it seriously.
Bah, you just said neurotypical disorder instead of Ignorance disorder, two different things. It's not wrong to have neurotypical disorder, but they might need some comfort for their suffering Tongue.

Ignorance disorder on the other hand... There's way too much of it, we better find a cure.
That's it.  I am going back to my own private planet.
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