01-07-2008, 08:20 PM
Not All Autism Is Equal
I had the chance over the last few days to click around the internet and check more autism sites than I usually do. I have read all kinds of information about autism awareness, education issues, biomedical treatment, legal issues, political battles, and, of course, I have read lots of parents' blogs. I have spent quite a bit of time on neurodiversity sites trying to understand their point of view. The same thought keeps surfacing in my mind. Not all autism is equal. This is not news to most of us. Just like each person is unique, so is each person with autism. We call it a spectrum disorder. The severity of the disability can range from mild to profound. There are autistic individuals with tremendous intellectual and verbal skills. There are autistic individuals who are nonverbal and are classified as mentally ***, like my son. We use descriptions like high functioning and low functioning. Some autistic children crave sensory input, and some children avoid it at all cost.And some of us swing back and forth between the two. When you compare biomedical profiles, they are not all identical. There seem to be different biomedical subsets that individuals fall into based on digestive function, viral response, and immune system function. Or should I say dysfunction? All of this measurable dysfunction can be mild or severe as well. Not all autism is equal.

I know lots of families with autistic kids, and I often visit the blogs of other parents of kids on the spectrum. The truth is I don't even relate to some things I hear and read. My ten-year old son is low functioning. Essentially he is nonverbal. He does not attend school; we provide a one-to-one home floortime program. His sensory needs are huge and interrupt therapy constantly. He has only just begun to be interested in other kids his age as playmates. He is not working anywhere near his grade level. We are working on pre-school/kindergarten skills. I have to admit that I am jealous of the stories I read on other blogs: attending school, eating in restaurants, participating in sports, working on friendships, having conversations. I want my son to do all all these things. I don't want to minimize other family's challenges. I know all families with autism struggle with the disability, and it is painful. There is nothing easy about it. But I still wish my son could do the things that other children with the same "label" are able to do. So in my mind, not all autism is equal.
Then I wonder. Is that part of what the disagreement is about? Is the neurodiversity group speaking from the high-functioning end of the spectrum? Is the pro-cure group coming from the low-functioning end of the spectrum? Do we really understand each other?This woman gets it.My answers to her are yes,and no. We are all talking about autism, but not all autism is equal. Do we really understand the challenges of each other's children? It's like we speak the same language and use the same words, but is reality being communicated? Whos on first. Whats on second. My child has autism. So does mine. Sounds the same, but it isn't. Not all autism is equal.
Thanks for stopping by. Linda
March 20, 2006 | Permalink for this entry is http://www.arttocureautism.com/art/2006/...tism_.html
Oh,and I registeredthis domain today.It was either that,or "proud2Baneurobigot"
I had the chance over the last few days to click around the internet and check more autism sites than I usually do. I have read all kinds of information about autism awareness, education issues, biomedical treatment, legal issues, political battles, and, of course, I have read lots of parents' blogs. I have spent quite a bit of time on neurodiversity sites trying to understand their point of view. The same thought keeps surfacing in my mind. Not all autism is equal. This is not news to most of us. Just like each person is unique, so is each person with autism. We call it a spectrum disorder. The severity of the disability can range from mild to profound. There are autistic individuals with tremendous intellectual and verbal skills. There are autistic individuals who are nonverbal and are classified as mentally ***, like my son. We use descriptions like high functioning and low functioning. Some autistic children crave sensory input, and some children avoid it at all cost.And some of us swing back and forth between the two. When you compare biomedical profiles, they are not all identical. There seem to be different biomedical subsets that individuals fall into based on digestive function, viral response, and immune system function. Or should I say dysfunction? All of this measurable dysfunction can be mild or severe as well. Not all autism is equal.

I know lots of families with autistic kids, and I often visit the blogs of other parents of kids on the spectrum. The truth is I don't even relate to some things I hear and read. My ten-year old son is low functioning. Essentially he is nonverbal. He does not attend school; we provide a one-to-one home floortime program. His sensory needs are huge and interrupt therapy constantly. He has only just begun to be interested in other kids his age as playmates. He is not working anywhere near his grade level. We are working on pre-school/kindergarten skills. I have to admit that I am jealous of the stories I read on other blogs: attending school, eating in restaurants, participating in sports, working on friendships, having conversations. I want my son to do all all these things. I don't want to minimize other family's challenges. I know all families with autism struggle with the disability, and it is painful. There is nothing easy about it. But I still wish my son could do the things that other children with the same "label" are able to do. So in my mind, not all autism is equal.
Then I wonder. Is that part of what the disagreement is about? Is the neurodiversity group speaking from the high-functioning end of the spectrum? Is the pro-cure group coming from the low-functioning end of the spectrum? Do we really understand each other?This woman gets it.My answers to her are yes,and no. We are all talking about autism, but not all autism is equal. Do we really understand the challenges of each other's children? It's like we speak the same language and use the same words, but is reality being communicated? Whos on first. Whats on second. My child has autism. So does mine. Sounds the same, but it isn't. Not all autism is equal.
Thanks for stopping by. Linda
March 20, 2006 | Permalink for this entry is http://www.arttocureautism.com/art/2006/...tism_.html
Oh,and I registeredthis domain today.It was either that,or "proud2Baneurobigot"
), gave him the "411" on the local disabilities board (for the most part don't bother I told him. For example their job coach who is terrible is responsible for training the high school job coaches!
talk about the blind leading the blind I told him).
She is incredibly money-driven. I was more idealistic (it was the sixties, after all) and not really concerned with salaries...