I think what is really the point here is that if you and your bf have a difficult incident, what makes you think he is the one that 'needs fixing'
you said: "When it comes to me and my bf... I can't help getting sad or angry at the moment. I usually just get quiet and then we talk and I explain why I got sad. "
maybe if 'normal' folks didn't automatically think we need to get fixed ...
maybe you need anger management therapy or something
Ehm, well... I do not have the energy for this. Go on and believe what you want to believe... it pretty much feels like I can't make my point clear enough.
Goodbye
I just felt like I didn't get any straight answears. And it got frustrating when people misunderstood what I was saying. However, I'm sorry if I went on too hard, I wasn't exactly sober att the time...
so I'm sorry if I offended anyone.
I just felt like I didn't get any straight answears. And it got frustrating when people misunderstood what I was saying. However, I'm sorry if I went on too hard, I wasn't exactly sober att the time...
so I'm sorry if I offended anyone.
ah, dont worry 
you are hardly the first to cause accidental offence, and its unlikely you will be the last 
its just, you seem a big aggressive.... and we are, generally, a very... combustible lot.
I might seem that way, it's just that I'm not good with patience... I am one of those "I want it and I want it NOW"-persons so I do get a little frustrated sometimes. Specially when I'm in the state I was back then..
I'll try that next time. Thanks for the tip
I think this issue depends on the type of autism being "cured." In the case of Aspergers, I'm against it. I believe the downsides to it are strictly social, and aspies are great intellects that can contribute greatly to society. There should be no kind of mandatory "cure" or pre-natal prevention program for a disorder which only negatively impacts social behaviors. (Causes people to act "out of the norm.")
HOWEVER, the most severe cases on the spectrum deserve more research on its causes. Simply, people with the most severe cases of autism like down syndrome can't communicate and therefore aren't easily able to communicate their ideas, no matter how creative they may be.
Here's whats confusing me. If the rising rates of autism is constantly being linked with pollution and environmental quality, how is it natural evolution?
In short, if someone is pregnant with an autistic child, the pregnancy shouldn't be aborted solely because of autism. That is genocide. However, some of the goals of organizations such as autism speaks are to support autism research. If a method can be discovered for preventing the negative social aspects but retaining the intellectual aspects of autism, specifically Aspergers, I believe it is something we can get behind. Though, even if a "cure" was somehow made, I wouldn't get it. I'm not willing to go change the personality I've had my whole life.
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