Aspies For Freedom

I find that my dignosis of AS makes me unable to make friends amoung the popular group. I find that im excluded and threatend simply because i show no intrest in the popculture and would prefer to remain a free individual. Any advice from other fellow AS people would be great.

ignore these idiots they think they are fantastic because they all share the same brain cell .you want to be you so don't bother with them its not worth it

i hav it and i hav many friends
i cant see why u cant make any
i heard that you to abouve are friends though

Ian Wrote:

You've got me Victah ;p :]

Heh

take my advice now victor RUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!

don't worry ian im joking! Tongue

don't worry though you'll always have friend's on here victor! Smile

I realise that soccerfreak is somewhat younger than us, batman. In that sense she has to find her path. About it being her duty to try harder?

I've tried at times to fit in and have known about my deficits for some time. Along with those deficits we find our strengths. It's as if the strengths are there all along hiding just beneath the surface awaiting the correct sequence of events, or a specific event, in order to rise to surface. Once our strengths become manifest to us they usually are in the form of some unique talent.

I rely on my talents. Having a number of friends is not among my strengths. Currently, I'm back down to one true friend who is diagnosed PDD-NOS. We are both Master's students in the university system who enjoy talking about economics, politics, psychology, and sometimes not much at all.

meh,being with the in crowd is...overrated.

tis better to stick to the fringe groups.you are more likely to run into intellectuals there. as flardox (brilliantly) said,they all share the same brain cell.

however...if you can get a reputation within your school for being good at IT,for example,the in crowd will come to you...to use you.

at which point,i would advise you to make a fist,and raise the two fingers which come most naturally.

indeed,Lestat. i have to agree with you one that point too.

pikajedi4 Wrote:

meh,being with the in crowd is...overrated.

tis better to stick to the fringe groups.you are more likely to run into intellectuals there. as flardox (brilliantly) said,they all share the same brain cell.

however...if you can get a reputation within your school for being good at IT,for example,the in crowd will come to you...to use you.

at which point,i would advise you to make a fist,and raise the two fingers which come most naturally.

I couldn't agree more, and flardox, great line there

Personally, I've always been inclined to be a part of the goth subculture, for some reason, I tend to find a lot more stimulating conversation, and education in general, amongst NT goths, than any other NT culture, the 'in crowd', at least in my experience, has usually been something I despise totally as shallow, bitchy and, well, the in crowd, at least round here, resembles a communal organism in a persistent, ambulatory vegetative state.

thanks sorry if my post turned into a bit of a rant its just i cant stand that "in-crowd" thing because i was always left out of things as a little kid

Ian Wrote:

violet_yoshi Wrote:

flardox Wrote:

[quote=pikajedi4]
meh,being with the in crowd is...overrated.

tis better to stick to the fringe groups.you are more likely to run into intellectuals there. as flardox (brilliantly) said,they all share the same brain cell.

however...if you can get a reputation within your school for being good at IT,for example,the in crowd will come to you...to use you.

at which point,i would advise you to make a fist,and raise the two fingers which come most naturally.

I couldn't agree more, and flardox, great line there

Personally, I've always been inclined to be a part of the goth subculture, for some reason, I tend to find a lot more stimulating conversation, and education in general, amongst NT goths, than any other NT culture, the 'in crowd', at least in my experience, has usually been something I despise totally as shallow, bitchy and, well, the in crowd, at least round here, resembles a communal organism in a persistent, ambulatory vegetative state.

thanks sorry if my post turned into a bit of a rant its just i cant stand that "in-crowd" thing because i was always left out of things as a little kid

I just wanted to throw this out here Flardox. I think Goth guys are hot. Wink

maybe AFF should just set up a dating section for you violet-yoshi! Big Grin

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