11-11-2007, 01:32 AM
I met an NT woman who hangs on me and constantly wants to be my friend. She is a whiney victim type.. in her late 50s and over and over talks about her poor helpless life... and how people did not coddle her.. How some guy told her she was not a good muscian so she gave it up LOL
I told her my sister is an NT and never did well in life because she was always the victim....
When someone told me I could not possibly do something, I set out to prove them wrong. It lit a fire under my bohinee to learn and be great at it. I guess I used my ability to learn like a weapon.. never to be victimized by anyone ...
It bothers me when people use their aspieness to make excuses...
My response is FIND a way! God gave us aspies a superior mind! To me its a sin if we do not use our mind or talents....and become the best!
I am an adage follower... "If there is a will, there is a way" You gotta have the wanna!
I told her my sister is an NT and never did well in life because she was always the victim....
When someone told me I could not possibly do something, I set out to prove them wrong. It lit a fire under my bohinee to learn and be great at it. I guess I used my ability to learn like a weapon.. never to be victimized by anyone ...
It bothers me when people use their aspieness to make excuses...
My response is FIND a way! God gave us aspies a superior mind! To me its a sin if we do not use our mind or talents....and become the best!
I am an adage follower... "If there is a will, there is a way" You gotta have the wanna!