I sewed something for my baby nephew. I wanted to take it over to my brother's house. We called but he didn't answer. We went over and he had just left. My husband said that he probably didn't want to see me. I thought he hated me. Other siblings hardly see me and never phone me. Even my mother will cut me off the phone and say she is busy. I was starting to feel that my family hates me. We ended up calling and going over later. My brother had thought we had been to his house before and we never had.
Does my family hate me because I have Asperger's?
So you think they might not be busy but just don't want to be with you?
I would think that they would knew enough to not be insecure about your AS.
If so,they are not worth wasting your time on
If they cant love you for what you are,then so be it,believe me!
We ended up going over there. All I was offered was tea and no snacks. It was rather late and I had not eaten. I thought it would be rude if I just helped myself to my brother's food.
I am now sewing more clothing for their baby. Am I stupid? Usually I just try to talk to my mother and she tells me all about my siblings' and their family activities. I don't understand why EVERYONE is always too busy to socialize with me. I will discuss this with my husband. If it requires me to remain silent during conversations, maybe that will be fine.