Nothing wrong with referencing ones parents on decisions.
I think we forgot about religion.
I think it is kind of interesting that I ended up becoming a Christian because I wanted to live a tranquil, amicable life like my residence assistance friends (Buddhist leaning), but never could.
The RAs would frequently talk me out of my attitude against the campus fellowship. I especially wanted the follow the example of one Rachael Meads, but I could not. Then I became a Christian and I stopped having anger management problems at individuals or categories of people.
I did thinking about the charity and foreign students thing too.
No, it is not a Christian thing to refuse them, but it would have been more consistent with the behavior of my parents, who were Lutheran only in name.
Somehow I am doubting they would have done as well for themselves if they could have been talked out of their treasures on earth.
Ever wonder why people who are more successful often hold on to their money better?
I'm not thinking like a Christian I am thinking like a, well, a Marsh.
GuessWho, I think it's time to think for yourself and not base all your decisions on what your parents would have done. Material success does not mean personal success or success in the eyes of God.