hrick
Well then, I guess you have the option of going the public services route. Again, it is a mixed bag. When practicing there were some providers within the system who were dedicated, exceptional individuals of considerable talent and value... there were others I wouldn't take my dog to. It is all in the luck of the draw.. and a bit of knowing where to draw from. In consequence some may choose not to bother. . Others may take a chance and succeed... or fail. Outcome largely depends on the individual themself as well as who is working the other end of your appointment.
Some benefit from diagnosis. For others simply "knowing" what their difference is, without diaganosis, may be enough. Where additional symptomology presents like depression, add, ocd, etc. for which medication might prove helpful, it might just be worth a try... especially if the worst that could happen is youf being left no better off than where you started... problem is, based on what some have reported, I'm not sure that is the worst that can happen. Sounds like some of you have suffered far worse for having made the effort. Can we leave it as it is a highly personal and very difficult decision? No right or wrongs to it.
Mom
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hrick
"NO way you will get meds legally without a psychiatrist... for any disorder you have. "
Actually, the above statement is not accurate. Here in US at least, some MD's will dole out meds without psychiatric diagnosis and followup, especially for things like depression. It is regrettable but true. In some certain circumstances I'm sure it has helped the patient, in others I'm equally sure it has lead to disastrous consequences.
Creasy
Creasy
After asking if could speak for the umpteenth time and being talked over again, I lost my temper and said look just the fuck up alright to which he replied, 'ah, don't talk to me'. I had to walk away and cool down because I felt like punching the idiot. I don't mind people having a point of view but when they talk at you and won't let you respond it can become really frustrating, especially when you can defeat their arguments.
Creasy
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It's in style at the moment to bash religion, and 'religious' people are pissed about it, is all. They tend to get bent real quick.
nobody can defeat the arguments, only show their flaws in logic. Nobody can prove God exists with a proof, and nobody can say he doesn't. (and I personally believe that God set it up that way.)
Yeah. His anger seemed like it had been with him for awhile and he was aware of Richard Dawkins. So I guess this was something he was already pissed about and I just gave him a target. Funny thing is though; he saw my wife at a BBQ a few weeks later and started telling why her beliefs about global warming were incorrect. 
Your second comment is interesting. I tend to think that all this pontificating about religion and morality etc is just another form of procrastination. Most reasonable people know the difference between right and wrong.
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http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Debunk...uments.htm
Creasy
By Richard Dawkins
Despite my dislike of gladiatorial contests, I seem somehow to have acquired a reputation for pugnacity toward religion. Colleagues who agree that there is no God, who agree that we do not need religion to be moral, and agree that we can explain the roots of religion and of morality in non-religious terms, nevertheless come back at me in gentle puzzlement. Why are you so hostile? What is actually wrong with religion? Does it really do so much harm that we should actively fight against it? Why not live and let live, as one does with Taurus and Scorpio, crystal energy and ley lines? Isn't it all just harmless nonsense?
I might retort that such hostility as I or other atheists occasionally voice toward religion is limited to words. I am not going to bomb anybody, behead them, stone them, burn them at the stake, crucify them, or fly planes into their skyscrapers, just because of a theological disagreement. But my interlocutor usually doesn’t leave it at that. He may go on to say something like this: "Doesn’t your hostility mark you out as a fundamentalist atheist, just as fundamentalist in your own way as the wingnuts of the Bible Belt in theirs?" I need to dispose of this accusation of fundamentalism, for it is distressingly common.
Holy Books vs. Evidence
Fundamentalists know they are right because they have read the truth in a holy book and they know, in advance, that nothing will budge them from their belief. The truth of the holy book is an axiom, not the end product of a process of reasoning. The book is true, and if the evidence seems to contradict it, it is the evidence that must be thrown out, not the book. By contrast, what I, as a scientist, believe (for example, evolution) I believe not because of reading a holy book but because I have studied the evidence. It really is a very different matter. Books about evolution are believed not because they are holy. They are believed because they present overwhelming quantities of mutually buttressed evidence. In principle, any reader can go and check that evidence. When a science book is wrong, somebody eventually discovers the mistake and it is corrected in subsequent books. That conspicuously doesn’t happen with holy books.
Philosophers, especially amateurs with a little philosophical learning, and even more especially those infected with "cultural relativism," may raise a tiresome red herring at this point a scientist’s belief in evidence is itself a matter of fundamentalist faith. I have dealt with this elsewhere, and will only briefly repeat myself here. All of us believe in evidence in our own lives, whatever we may profess with our amateur philosophical hats on.
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I am no more fundamentalist when I say evolution is true than when I say it is true that New Zealand is in the southern hemisphere. We believe in evolution because the evidence supports it, and we would abandon it overnight if new evidence arose to disprove it. No real fundamentalist would ever say anything like that.
It is all too easy to confuse fundamentalism with passion. I may well appear passionate when I defend evolution against a fundamentalist creationist, but this is not because of a rival fundamentalism of my own. It is because the evidence for evolution is overwhelmingly strong and I am passionately distressed that my opponent can’t see it--or, more usually, refuses to look at it because it contradicts his holy book. My passion is increased when I think about how much the poor fundamentalists, and those whom they influence, are missing. The truths of evolution, along with many other scientific truths, are so engrossingly fascinating and beautiful; how truly tragic to die having missed out on all that! Of course that makes me passionate. How could it not? But my belief in evolution is not fundamentalism, and it is not faith, because I know what it would take to change my mind, and I would gladly do so if the necessary evidence were forthcoming.
It does happen. I have previously told the story of a respected elder statesman of the Zoology Department at Oxford when I was an undergraduate. For years he had passionately believed, and taught, that the Golgi Apparatus (a microscopic feature of the interior of cells) was not real: an artifact, an illusion. Every Monday afternoon it was the custom for the whole department to listen to a research talk by a visiting lecturer. One Monday, the visitor was an American cell biologist who presented completely convincing evidence that the Golgi Apparatus was real. At the end of the lecture, the old man strode to the front of the hall, shook the American by the hand and said--with passion--"My dear fellow, I wish to thank you. I have been wrong these fifteen years." We clapped our hands red. No fundamentalist would ever say that. In practice, not all scientists would. But all scientists pay lip service to it as an ideal--unlike, say, politicians who would probably condemn it as flip-flopping. The memory of the incident I have described still brings a lump to my throat.
Fundamentalist Religion Saps the Intellect
As a scientist, I am hostile to fundamentalist religion because it actively debauches the scientific enterprise. It teaches us not to change our minds, and not to want to know exciting things that are available to be known. It subverts science and saps the intellect. The saddest example I know is that of the American geologist Kurt Wise, who now directs the Center for Origins Research at Bryan College, Dayton, Tennessee. It is no accident that Bryan College is named after William Jennings Bryan, prosecutor of the science teacher John Scopes in the Dayton "Monkey Trial" of 1923. Wise could have fulfilled his boyhood ambition to become a professor of geology at a real university, a university whose motto might have been "Think critically" rather than the oxymoronic one displayed on the Bryan website: "Think critically and biblically." Indeed, he obtained a real degree in geology at the University of Chicago, followed by two higher degrees in geology and paleontology at Harvard (no less) where he studied under Stephen Jay Gould (no less). He was a highly qualified and genuinely promising young scientist, well on his way to achieving his dream of teaching science and doing research at a proper university.
Then tragedy struck. It came, not from outside but from within his own mind, a mind fatally subverted and weakened by a fundamentalist religious upbringing that required him to believe that the Earth--the subject of his Chicago and Harvard geological education--was less than ten thousand years old. He was too intelligent not to recognize the head-on collision between his religion and his science, and the conflict in his mind made him increasingly uneasy. One day, he could hear the strain no more, and he clinched the matter with a pair of scissors. He took a bible and went right through it, literally cutting out every verse that would have to go if the scientific world-view were true. At the end of this ruthlessly honest labor-intensive exercise, there was so little left of his bible that
try as I might, and even with the benefit of intact margins throughout the pages of Scripture, I found it impossible pick up the Bible without it being rent in two. I had to make a decision between evolution and Scripture. Either the Scripture was true and evolution was wrong or evolution was true and I must toss out the Bible . . . It was there that night that I accepted the Word of God and rejected all that would ever counter it, including evolution. With that, in great sorrow, I tossed into the fire all my dreams and hopes in science.
I find that terribly sad; but whereas the Golgi Apparatus moved me to tears of admiration and exultation, the Kurt Wise story is just plain pathetic--pathetic and contemptible. The wound, to his career and his life’s happiness, was self-inflicted, so unnecessary, so easy to escape. All he had to do was toss out the bible. Or interpret it symbolically, or allegorically, as the theologians do. Instead, he did the fundamentalist thing and tossed out evidence and reason, along with all his dreams and hopes.
Perhaps uniquely among fundamentalists, Kurt Wise is honest--devastatingly, painfully, shockingly honest. Give him the Templeton Prize; he might be the first really sincere recipient. Wise brings to the surface what is secretly going on underneath, in the minds of fundamentalists generally, when they encounter scientific evidence that contradicts their beliefs.
The Doublethink of Religious Faith
Poor Kurt Wise reminds me more of Winston Smith in ‘1984’--struggling desperately to believe that two plus two equals five if Big Brother says it does. Winston, however, was being tortured. Wise’s doublethink comes not from the imperative of physical torture but from the imperative--apparently just as undeniable to some people--of religious faith: arguably a form of mental torture. I am hostile to religion because of what it did to Kurt Wise. And if it did that to a Harvard-educated geologist, just think what it can do to others less gifted and less well armed.
Fundamentalist religion is hell-bent on ruining the scientific education of countless thousands of innocent, well-meaning, eager young minds. Non-fundamentalist, "sensible" religion may not be doing that. But it is making the world safe for fundamentalism by teaching children, from their earliest years, that unquestioning faith is a virtue.
Creasy
Personally I'm an atheist, but I'm still angered when people make negative assumptions about christians. God is a very important supportive character to a great deal of people, and I don't have the heart to see that be taken away from people.
That can be agreed that their is no reason to discriminate.
That's fine as long as Christians don't start telling me or members of my family that we're doomed to go to hell if we don't do what the Bible says. Many of the claims in the Bible don't have a shred of evidence to back them up. Call a spade a spade I say.
Creasy
Creasy
But I guess you wouldn't be interested in our small town ways..
I like nature and Japanese culture. So it might be a good fit.
Creasy
Last week some church sent a flyer to our house offering to send us a free booklet that proves that God exists. So I filled in the form and I'm waiting for the booklet. I post what it says when I receive it.
Creasy
The theist’s belief in the existence of god is based on faith and as such does not require ‘proof’.
Proof would only ever satisfy agnostics.
Atheists don’t believe in god anyway and so wouldn’t accept proof regardless.
Saying that something is true merely because you believe it is or want it to be, doesn't make it true. People that are mentally ill believe that their delusions are real but it doesn’t mean they are.
So there's no evidence to prove that God exists. I'm glad we agree on that. Secondly as this is "The Why Christianity is Wrong" thread, what do you have to say about the Bible and the fact many of the claims in it have proven to be false or at best have no evidence to back them up? In fact the gospels about Christ were written decades after his death and many of the "miracles" that weren't talked about in the early gospels were talked about in later ones. Now surely if they had happened (and the authors weren't just making it up) they would've been mentioned in the earlier gospels.
Marcia asked about why is proof important.
Well if I was going to hand my life over to something, I'd want to know it was real. Just having people say "it's real because I believe it is," doesn't cut it for me.