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woman from mars Wrote:

Timelord Wrote:
I think most people here know that I have at least three THREADS with my real name on it. Not just in the content - in the title!

And bluntly I don't feel honoured at all - if only because it attracted trouble from others who are enemies of mine from elsewhere and caused me considerable distress. I might not have minded otherwise.
Sorry! I'll shut up now!

I for one don't know your name & I wouldn't cause trouble because I don't do that    Smile     (  well perhaps I could but it would be an accident )Sad


Timelord has a FULLY justifiable "thing" about Foresam.if you want to know more,read some of the older threads...
I would imagine my name to be on that list,as i have signed both forms of the petition with my really name-and just incase im not,and he is reading:

old fuckbag,get a brainstem Big Grin

Max the Bear Wrote:
That's just f*ing brilliant!


*grins* The best bit is that it doesn't look like he came up with a response, so he deleted the entire blog entry!

my own experience is people hate or disaproved of others because they do not grasp their behavior. it's a clear sign of flexibility to judge anybody who is not like you.

So for me ignorance is at the root of all hate

if anybody comes up to you and tells you there is something weird or stupid about you or even calls you a bitch, does that mean it's true?

NO WAY!

it means they are limited in their own minds to look beyond behavior or looks.

if anybody hates you it tells you somethings about that person instead of thinking it is about you.

all you have to learn is to leave that comment with those people. because it their frustration, ignorance or limitations that will make them behave like this.

don't make the mistake of making this personal. it's all about them!

Joy

Batman55 Wrote:


I've had stuff like this happen to me, too, throughout the years (not as much lately though--I'm now 26), I find it's a result of two things put together that people notice:

1) Not wearing trendy clothes (I guess NTs assume if you're not dressing to impress women, you might be gay)
2) Anxious/awkward way of walking

I don't change my wardrobe to please idiots on the street, though, and I won't.  As much as I hate morons shouting at me.

But I find a good way to avoid a lot of this, for males at least, is to "walk with rhythm" because it implies confidence for some reason.  Just walk with a "light sway."  I had to learn to walk this way in high school, and once I did, suddenly things got a lot better.  It didn't work in every situation though, and the jerks still picked up on my constant anxiety.  But it still worked.



Batman55 Wrote:
I've had stuff like this happen to me, too, throughout the years (not as much lately though--I'm now 26), I find it's a result of two things put together that people notice:

1) Not wearing trendy clothes (I guess NTs assume if you're not dressing to impress women, you might be gay)
2) Anxious/awkward way of walking

I don't change my wardrobe to please idiots on the street, though, and I won't.  As much as I hate morons shouting at me.


and that alone,makes you better than them.

I too,have found it impossible to find work (UK).the second they find out i am an Aspie,wham,sorry someone better suited has been found.

the single exception? the "local" webcafe.i say local,its about an hour away,and the buses run..once every two hours,and they stop at 5PM....so,dispite the fact that they actually offered me the job,i didnt ask for it,i couldn't take it...
*cradles head in hands*

cant we all just...get along..?

PLEASE stop arguing...?

Timelord Wrote:
Max, I am NOT delusional. You forget - because of Best's behaviour and slander, I got a visit from the police!


wtf? how...why....?

[maturemode]

RIGHT.

Guesswho,Max,ignore lists. they are there,use 'em. i know i have gotten involved in this one,and i am aware this is hypocrisy,but i dont care.

Timelord: you did stop mentioning JB on every thread,and i dont know how it came up here.

Rossco,Wilky,again,the ignore list has a purpose.

i find it EXTREMELY ironic that this has happened,considering the thread title.

i would suggest you all ignore each others posts. WHAT is this infighting archiving?

[/maturemode]
shit,thats Achieving,not archiving XD
Ian,you made me laugh.good job Big Grin

Kurai-Gaka Wrote:
That post was hilarious! Best read of the day! And sooo true! Kirby is such a paranoid emo

Kirby: "Nobody UNDERSTAAANDS MEEEEEEEEE!!! Aspies are just FREEAAAAKS!!!!! They aren't REAAALLL autistics!!!!!! Autism is just....er-um....mercury, no, pollution, no- AILIENS STOLE OUR CHILDREN!!!...........I bleed black...."

Sorry if that seemed pretty harsh but that's the impression I get from the guy.


....where did THIS come from??

Batman55 Wrote:
And what spurs you to come down on him, so hard?

I am guilty of the same infraction, over and over--I complain and dance around the same issues, same problems time and time again, without fixing anything.  It seems to be a common AS tendency.  And now we have people here being punished for it, verbally.

If you're going to punish them, you'll have to punish me, as well.

I'm a complainer and I'm resistant to change, not a great combination.  But it seems common with AS.


The repeating thing's not really an issue - people are only attacking Guess Who over his anti-gay comments. It sounds like he may have privately agreed not to post these any more, so no more problem.

DogBrain Wrote:

aliengirl Wrote:

Why do people hate us so much?


Because most "people" are actually subhuman.  They have the POTENTIAL to become human, but the majority of them prefer to remain nothing but yammering, chattering, feces-throwing monkeys.


...Gesserit?

still a fairy tale, told to keep the peasants in line..

Ian Wrote:

pikajedi4 Wrote:
still a fairy tale, told to keep the peasants in line..


And your Paganism is "real" is it, Richard? good Gods grow up.


I never professed to BELIEVING in it, I just said that I agree with its basic tenants.

and its not Paganism, which implies Wiccian, its Heathen.

..what?
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